&One thing i will Never understand is dependency, for a human being to be dependent on another. Im all for impowerment and independency in Males & Females. But it definetly grinds my gears to see Dependency go beyond a financial stance but in a relationship stance. Why is it that we as females find the need to be in a relationship ? To find someone who can fulfill us but in reality are just temporary convience. We can go all into the Tyra's & Oprah Segment with the " My dad wasnt home, he wasnt there " but that isnt giving us shit but an excuse to be needy. If you find your self depressed when you have no companionship / partner or Lover by your side.. that is a PROBLEM ! Yes you can feel lonely at times but when that depression takes a turn into consuming ya life and lifes activities its a PROBLEM !
Yes i am in a relationship But my Partner inhances my Greatness by being great himself. Though before him i was alone and just hanging with my friends were enough for me, them having someone did not depress or upset me. i encouraged the joy the seemed to have and we kicked it like we were before dude came along and after he left we were still just as tight.
It is in You as a person to look into you and find undeniable fulfillment in yourself before searching for the dependency in tempoary affection. I see it as the people who are more dependent on a partner for happiness are the ones with the loneliess soul . But the ones who find Joy in the sun and the Laughter from just a platonic friend are the ones who find someone who inhances their greatness because it wasnt searched for it just Happened .
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